You might have guessed, reading was a very important part of my upbringing and the holidays were no exception. Besides the requisite viewings of whatever interpretation of A Christmas Carol we were ready for that year, I always remember my dad reading aloud to us on Christmas Eve. It’s a tradition I brought with me as I made a new home in Seattle.
The Gift of the Magi
“One dollar and eighty-seven cents. That was all. And sixty cents of it was in pennies. Pennies saved one and two at a time by bulldozing the grocer and the vegetable man and the butcher until one’s cheeks burned with the silent imputation of parsimony that such close dealing implied. Three times Della counted it. One dollar and eighty-seven cents. And the next day would be Christmas.” – “The Gift of the Magi” by O. Henry
So this year, as in all the years past (and future?), I will be snuggled up by our tree with some cider reading aloud to my husband. The set list hasn’t even varied. I’ll start with O. Henry’s “The Gift of the Magi” and weep my eyes out. The “the uneventful chronicle of two foolish children in a flat who most unwisely sacrificed for each other the greatest treasures of their house” has always touched me very deeply and every year I better understand how wise Della and Jim were in their love and their sacrifice.
Christ Climbed Down
“Christ climbed down
from His bare Tree
this year
and ran away to where
no intrepid Bible salesmen
covered the territory
in two-tone cadillacs
and where no Sears Roebuck creches
complete with plastic babe in manger
arrived by parcel post
the babe by special delivery”
– “Christ Climbed Down” by Lawrence Ferlinghetti
Once I’ve somewhat recovered, I’ll pull out Lawrence Ferlinghetti’s A Coney Island of the Mind, turn to page 69, and read “Christ Climbed Down.” In the twinkling light of our (natural) tree, I’ll think about what’s important to me about the holiday. I wasn’t raised with religion (although I dragged my mom to a different church every Christmas and Easter), so I don’t really have a relationship with the Baby Jesus (even though I display a creche every year). That makes it especially important for me to question my relationship with the commercial Christmas and Ferlinghetti’s poem is the perfect start.
I’m missing my “clever cornball relatives” already.
Regardless of how you spend the holidays (and which holidays you celebrate), I hope the coming days find you snug and surrounded by love. And if your holiday traditions involve books, I’d love to hear about your favorites in the comments.
Jerry Soffer says
Ferlinghetti has been my favorite poet for almost 50 years. He still stuns me sometimes. Happy Holidays.
Isla McKetta, MFA says
Happy holidays to you too, Jerry! I’ve loved sharing reading and writing with you this year 🙂
Jerry Soffer says
Natasha says
Wow. What a lovely tradition. We did nothing of the sort. If I remember correctly, we listened to music. Christmas carols sung by the Temptations or the Four Tops, this is when Barry White loved “Love Making Music”. (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYEJFSsfEcs&list=PLEIRu7qvORVwUo0X6-yudlOrmdCh4pcyW) and long before he saved your life (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hTJ10Smz8pE)
My family told stories. Usually the same ones as we did last year, but to my recollection they never seemed repetitive. I’m at the point now where I must decide what traditions I want to establish with my family, which rituals I want to keep or which ones I want to start.
It’s fun learning about others’ traditions. Perhaps I’ll start reading to the girls on Christmas Eve. I like the sound of that. They love books already, and they love when I read to them. Thanks. Merry Christmas.